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Hello, I'm Anita
A quiet corner for the tender-hearted.
I'm so glad you're here.
These are the moments that asked to be remembered.
Some are joyful.
Some are tender.
Some found me long after they happened.
They're not lessons or answers.
Just pieces of an ordinary life that felt worth paying attention to.
Some stories have songs woven into them.
Others invite you to move.
Either way...
I'm grateful our paths crossed.
Stay awhile.
Anita


Say What!?
Never thought I'd be taking road trips for hearing aid appointments. Between Grandma's selective hearing, my own embarrassing misunderstandings, and a little chocolate, I've found plenty to laugh about.

Anita R. Elliott
12 hours ago


The Dress Was Never Just a Dress
What does a polka-dot dress, a Mediterranean kimono, a gangster hat, and an apocalypse shopping spreadsheet have in common? Apparently, they're all little pieces of the life I've been dreaming about. A funny, honest reflection on shopping, beautiful things, imaginary adventures, and realizing that maybe what I really want isn't more stuff. It's more life.

Anita R. Elliott
Nov 1


Somewhere for the Rage to Go
It started with a tailgater and a little too much pressure. But underneath the exhaustion, the people-pleasing, and the grief, I discovered something I hadn't given myself much room to feel: rage. A reflection on masking, loss, compassion, and finding somewhere for the anger to go without handing it to someone else.

Anita R. Elliott
Oct 25


Well That Was Embarrassing
Toilet seat imprints, glass doors, wardrobe malfunctions, and an unfortunate encounter with a CrossFit resistance band. A lifetime of embarrassing moments, a little public humiliation, and a Thanksgiving reminder that sometimes the people who laughed with us are the ones we miss the most.

Anita R. Elliott
Oct 12


GROW SLOW, LITTLE SOUL
A reflection on childhood hiding places, favourite trees, shifting perspective, and the kind of safety we spend years trying to find our way back to. Sometimes growing doesn’t look like becoming more. Sometimes it looks like remembering where you once felt safe enough to simply be.

Anita R. Elliott
Sep 20


Anita 3.0 - Buffering ...
What happens when the version of yourself built on pushing, adapting, and reading the room starts to fall apart? Anita 3.0 is still buffering, somewhere between who I was and whoever comes next.

Anita R. Elliott
Sep 12


Stovetop Popcorn on Repeat | Scrappy & Soulful Meals
Some nights, figuring out what to eat feels like one decision too many. This is my very real, very repeatable stovetop popcorn supper for tired-brain evenings.

Anita R. Elliott
Sep 6


Smells Like Sixteen
Sometimes a certain smell, a stretch of prairie road, or the way the evening light falls can make you sixteen again. A little story about peaches, first freedom, summer nostalgia, and the songs that came from it.

Anita R. Elliott
Aug 30


What We Bring to the Dance
I almost didn’t go. But somewhere between learning the steps, trying to follow, and noticing everything happening inside me, I realized we bring so much more than our bodies onto the dance floor.

Anita R. Elliott
Aug 9


Living Room Ballroom
How dancing alone in my living room helped me reconnect with my body, rediscover joy, and inspired the song Living Room Ballroom.

Anita R. Elliott
Jul 20


Where the Wild Daisies Grow
I thought I was driving into the mountains to find a lake. Instead, I found a patch of wild daisies, a slower way of living, and a birthday that quietly changed something in me.

Anita R. Elliott
Jul 12


I Was Fine Five Minutes Ago
For a long time, I couldn't feel much of anything. Then one day the colour started coming back... along with every other emotion. This is a story about bone-deep exhaustion, kitchen sinks, popcorn, and discovering that maybe feeling everything isn't such a bad problem to have after all.

Anita R. Elliott
Jun 28


Will You Go Out With Me?
Most of us spend years hoping someone will ask, *"Will you go out with me?"* Last weekend, I realized I could answer that question for myself. What started as a ridiculously unglamorous road trip to activate a credit card turned into an unexpected date with sunshine, open highways, coffee, two new songs, and the quiet realization that maybe the best company I'd been looking for was already sitting in the driver's seat.

Anita R. Elliott
Jun 25


So What
How much of your life have you spent worrying about what other people might think? A reflection on fear of judgment, self-expression, and learning to dance anyway.... even when the laundry still needs folding.

Anita R. Elliott
Jun 14


Twitterpated: Notes from a Spring Heart
Butterflies. Memory. Hope. A reflection on being twitterpated ... and the people, possibilities, and moments that leave their fingerprints on our hearts.

Anita R. Elliott
Jun 7


Tribute: This One’s For You Dad
A cracked dashboard. A prairie dirt road. A dance that waited fourteen years. A tribute to a father who couldn't resist a good song and the daughter who finally took the dance.

Anita R. Elliott
May 31


I Carried a Watermelon
funny, tender reflection on social anxiety, overthinking, Dirty Dancing, and the strange journey from hugging a watermelon to questioning every social interaction you've ever had.

Anita R. Elliott
May 30


Socks In The Oven
A humorous and heartfelt reflection on overwhelm, perimenopause, burnout, and finding a pair of socks in the oven. A story about mental overload, survival mode, healing, and learning gentleness through music, movement, and everyday absurdity.

Anita R. Elliott
May 24


You’re Allowed to Take Up Space
A reflection on movement, visibility, body shame, healing, and learning to stop disappearing from my own life one small movement at a time.

Anita R. Elliott
May 17


Get Your Buckles On
A belt buckle, a memory, and a feeling that wouldn’t leave—this is about finding a way to move what your body’s been holding.

Anita R. Elliott
Apr 26

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