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Hello, I'm Anita
A quiet corner for the tender-hearted.
I'm so glad you're here.
These are the moments that asked to be remembered.
Some are joyful.
Some are tender.
Some found me long after they happened.
They're not lessons or answers.
Just pieces of an ordinary life that felt worth paying attention to.
Some stories have songs woven into them.
Others invite you to move.
Either way...
I'm grateful our paths crossed.
Stay awhile.
Anita


What We Bring to the Dance
I almost didn’t go. But somewhere between learning the steps, trying to follow, and noticing everything happening inside me, I realized we bring so much more than our bodies onto the dance floor.

Anita R. Elliott
14 hours ago1 min read


Living Room Ballroom
How dancing alone in my living room helped me reconnect with my body, rediscover joy, and inspired the song Living Room Ballroom.

Anita R. Elliott
Jul 201 min read


Where the Wild Daisies Grow
I thought I was driving into the mountains to find a lake. Instead, I found a patch of wild daisies, a slower way of living, and a birthday that quietly changed something in me.

Anita R. Elliott
Jul 121 min read


I Was Fine Five Minutes Ago
For a long time, I couldn't feel much of anything. Then one day the colour started coming back... along with every other emotion. This is a story about bone-deep exhaustion, kitchen sinks, popcorn, and discovering that maybe feeling everything isn't such a bad problem to have after all.

Anita R. Elliott
Jun 281 min read


Will You Go Out With Me?
Most of us spend years hoping someone will ask, *"Will you go out with me?"* Last weekend, I realized I could answer that question for myself. What started as a ridiculously unglamorous road trip to activate a credit card turned into an unexpected date with sunshine, open highways, coffee, two new songs, and the quiet realization that maybe the best company I'd been looking for was already sitting in the driver's seat.

Anita R. Elliott
Jun 251 min read


So What
How much of your life have you spent worrying about what other people might think? A reflection on fear of judgment, self-expression, and learning to dance anyway.... even when the laundry still needs folding.

Anita R. Elliott
Jun 141 min read


Twitterpated: Notes from a Spring Heart
Butterflies. Memory. Hope. A reflection on being twitterpated ... and the people, possibilities, and moments that leave their fingerprints on our hearts.

Anita R. Elliott
Jun 71 min read


Tribute: This One’s For You Dad
A cracked dashboard. A prairie dirt road. A dance that waited fourteen years. A tribute to a father who couldn't resist a good song and the daughter who finally took the dance.

Anita R. Elliott
May 311 min read


I Carried a Watermelon
funny, tender reflection on social anxiety, overthinking, Dirty Dancing, and the strange journey from hugging a watermelon to questioning every social interaction you've ever had.

Anita R. Elliott
May 301 min read


Socks In The Oven
A humorous and heartfelt reflection on overwhelm, perimenopause, burnout, and finding a pair of socks in the oven. A story about mental overload, survival mode, healing, and learning gentleness through music, movement, and everyday absurdity.

Anita R. Elliott
May 241 min read


You’re Allowed to Take Up Space
A reflection on movement, visibility, body shame, healing, and learning to stop disappearing from my own life one small movement at a time.

Anita R. Elliott
May 170 min read


Get Your Buckles On
A belt buckle, a memory, and a feeling that wouldn’t leave—this is about finding a way to move what your body’s been holding.

Anita R. Elliott
Apr 261 min read


Hungry, Naked & Breathless
A poem written in my twenties, inspired by a fleeting but deeply intense connection, has found its way back to me years later. What once felt like a moment frozen in time began to move again—through sound, rhythm, and release. This piece explores how something brief can leave a lasting imprint, and what it takes to finally let it breathe, shift, and soften into something new.

Anita R. Elliott
Apr 183 min read


Dear Shadow, May I Have This Dance?
A quiet reflection on shadow and light, presence over fixing, and what unfolds when we soften enough to dance with what we usually avoid.

Anita R. Elliott
Jan 242 min read


A Date With My Inner Child: Inner Child Healing Journey
A tender day of reconnection — a barefoot lunch date with my inner child, where pancakes, glitter trails, and golden fields became medicine

Anita R. Elliott
Oct 5, 20251 min read


Grieving the Selves We Outlive
A tender reflection on grief, memory, and becoming. Through poetry and story, Anita Elliott explores what it means to grieve the selves we outlive, honor the voices of loved ones, and find beginnings within endings. A meditation on loss, resilience, and the quiet beauty of carrying both grief and gratitude.

Anita R. Elliott
Sep 21, 20256 min read


To Be Seen or Not To Be Seen - Overcoming the Fear of Being Seen
To be seen or not to be seen — that’s been the quiet tug-of-war of my life. In this vulnerable reflection, author Anita Elliott shares her struggles with visibility, creative courage, and the tender journey of stepping out from behind the scenes with her new book The Deer, Dream.

Anita R. Elliott
Sep 7, 20253 min read

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